saab05
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| | "Help! dirty pic's from another girl..." (1st Dec 08 at 5:59pm UTC) |   | I found out that my boyfriend (on-off) of a year has been texting another girl asking for dirty pictures of herself. I was absolutely devastated when I found out and felt totally betrayed, even more so because it was a girl I disliked because she has always sla*gged me off to him, and he knew she fancied him. I cant believe he was even talking to her let alone encouraging her in that way.
He said that it was just a bit of banter that went too far, and it doesnt mean anything. Hes often accused me of not being trusting enough saying that men and women can just be friends. I tried to explain to him that his a jokey, flirty person with women and that it can sometimes be taken the wrong way by women, and I thought he might take that on board. I knew he was flirty and accepted thats just his personality and he doesnt mean anything by it, but I think this was way over-stepping the mark, and so I ended it because I couldnt accept what he had done, and with her of all people just rubbed salt in the wound.
I was an insainly jelous person to begin with and drove him away, after a few months we got back together 'officially' and I gave him the trust and sapce he said he needed to make this work - but then he did this! I believe he didnt fancy her and on his part it meant nothing, but he still betrayed me and didnt give a thought to how it would make me feel. Did I do the right thing, or should I have forgiven him?  | |
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