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| Topic:"Help! dirty pic's from another girl..." |
saab05
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| | "Help! dirty pic's from another girl..." (1st Dec 08 at 5:59pm UTC) | | I found out that my boyfriend (on-off) of a year has been texting another girl asking for dirty pictures of herself. I was absolutely devastated when I found out and felt totally betrayed, even more so because it was a girl I disliked because she has always sla*gged me off to him, and he knew she fancied him. I cant believe he was even talking to her let alone encouraging her in that way.
He said that it was just a bit of banter that went too far, and it doesnt mean anything. Hes often accused me of not being trusting enough saying that men and women can just be friends. I tried to explain to him that his a jokey, flirty person with women and that it can sometimes be taken the wrong way by women, and I thought he might take that on board. I knew he was flirty and accepted thats just his personality and he doesnt mean anything by it, but I think this was way over-stepping the mark, and so I ended it because I couldnt accept what he had done, and with her of all people just rubbed salt in the wound.
I was an insainly jelous person to begin with and drove him away, after a few months we got back together 'officially' and I gave him the trust and sapce he said he needed to make this work - but then he did this! I believe he didnt fancy her and on his part it meant nothing, but he still betrayed me and didnt give a thought to how it would make me feel. Did I do the right thing, or should I have forgiven him?  | |
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| Topic:love or career?? |
saab05
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| | love or career?? (1st Dec 08 at 5:57pm UTC) | | i'm currently turmoiled right now and trying to figure out what's the best thing to do with the dillema i'm facing . i'm really confused of what should be the best decision i should take with this scenario:
I'm going steady in a relationship for 1 year and 5 months now. Despite of the obstacles we've gone through yet we were struggling to continue our relationship.I would say i really had a hard time with this guy for couple of months before we reached 1 year though it's not about thrid party or something it's just that he can hardly get into a long relationship since i'm the only one who lasted that long cuz normaly he only last for 3 months in a relationship so i really valued what we've gone through and because of my patience everything had a good results.We finally met the clan of each other recently and that made our relationship more stronger.Suddently, i unexpectedly recieved a phone call from which it really made me confused, it's a very nice career, good opportunity for my future, however i have to work overseas,i've been waiting for that opportunity quite long time now unfortunately it came to me in wrong time from which i'm into a serious relationship.It made me confused cuz i don't know what to choose,i loved him so much and as much as possible i don't wanna leave him but the opportunity is knocking at my door which tempting me to push through but there's something holding me back., perhaps, i'm afraid to loose him, besides i don't believe in a long distance relationship and i know for sure when the time i come back he won't be there anymore because he's not really living in this country anyway. Though i really don't have any assurance if he's really the one for me either or if he really wanted to settle down.He hasn't mention anything unto that stage yet if what his plan in our relationship.i asked him once if how he see our relationship and if he's sure with us but his answer is"he's not sure yet depends on the situation"though i really felt how much he loves me i just don't know what keeps holding him back. i'm willing to push through the rel. as much as how he want to. Now, i'm kinda running out of time , i only got 1 and a half months to decide which one should i choose between him or my career ?
Hope somebody would have an opinion towards this issue of mine,just wanna hear some comments.. i'm totaly confused.sometimes heart is really deceiving..I don't know what's the best thing to choose..  | |
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| Topic:"What do Americans think of..." the British |
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| | "What do Americans think of..." the British (1st Dec 08 at 5:42pm UTC) | | After reading a post (on other forum) asking what Americans thought of Russians, I wondered the same for the British.
Over here there isn't much known of the American view of things. In the Uk there are a lot of anti-US ppl, mainly because of Bush. So,
What is ur opinion of Blair (our Primeminister)?
and British ppl, and what we are like etc.
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